How long is too long to ask grandparents to wait before meeting baby?

2021.12.09 01:26 HellfireMe How long is too long to ask grandparents to wait before meeting baby?

My husband and I have been feeling a lot of anxiety about all the out of state family who want to come visit us after our son is born. He is due January 20th, and both of my brothers and my in-laws voiced wanting to come in February which to me seems like an awful lot of visitors for a brand new baby and first time parents.
We decided to tell my brothers we'd like them to wait until baby is here for at least a month or two before coming. But then today my husband called his parents and told them the same thing and they were clearly very hurt. I think this is compounded by the fact that we live very close to my parents so my in-laws know my parents will be getting to see him right away.
My MIL kept saying how they got to see their other grandson in the hospital when he was born and how disappointed she was to have to wait so long. Our decision is partially due to sickness concerns, but it's also largely due to just feeling overwhelmed by the idea of having visitors so up in our space so soon after I give birth and while we adjust to our entire lives being turned upside down. I'm feeling really guilty though and like there should perhaps be an exception for the grandparents since my parents will have full access immediately.
Is it unreasonable to ask my in-laws to wait this long?
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2021.12.09 01:26 atlaiden Who do I start (2 RBs 2 WRs and a flex)

RBs: Chubb, Hilliard, Foreman, Jamaal williams, Perine (dalvin injured, sanders on bye)
WRs: Renfrow, Terry, Amari cooper, Aiyuk (Keenan covid list, pittman on bye)
TE: Schultz so i’m worried about playing cooper at WR. Could also pick up ricky seals jones
8-5, a win this week secures me in the playoffs
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2021.12.09 01:26 Nour_11 Clan level freezed at level 12!!!

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2021.12.09 01:26 Tashamarie96 Potty training tips

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2021.12.09 01:26 Majestic_Source32 Day/Night at Aventus Aretino’s house

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2021.12.09 01:26 USAFrenchMexRadTrad Mounted bear head at Helgen Keep is purple (missing texture?) Hunterborn also isn't working. Not sure if they're related issues.

I bring up the console. It's ID is 000f72b7. Not sure if it's a texture mod or what causing it. I installed Wall Mounted Dead Animal Fixes and Fixed Mesh Lighting to see if they would fix it. Nope.

Hunterborn quest "starts" when I kill a bat (from a mod) in Helgen Keep, but doesn't actually open the prompt to do any of the Hunterborn options, just searches the creature like any other containebody. Same with a giant rat I killed just before the cave in Helgen Keep. Normally, those two can be skinned, parts harvested for potions, etc.
Mods: https://loadorderlibrary.com/lists/escargo-and-tacos
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2021.12.09 01:26 Graphenegem Sonic 2, No Way Home

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2021.12.09 01:26 anroroco Um Lançamento

É estranho voltar de onde se saiu, com a cabeça de não mais retornar. Mesmo que seja uma visita, fica aquela sensação: Por que estou Aqui, se meu futuro é Ali? Qual o motivo desse retorno? Esses eram meus pensamentos quando cheguei em Belém, alguns dias atrás, para lançar meu livro O Catálogo das Coisas Específicas (ainda a venda, entre em contato comigo para saber como adquirir seu exemplar). A viagem foi horrível, com o aeroporto bagunçado, e três horas e meia de turbulências que me impediram tanto de dormir como de ler sem sentir enjoo. Quando saí finalmente do avião, o bafo quente da cidade me acolheu às quase 3 da manhã, e eu soube, finalmente, que tinha retornado à minha cidade natal.
Tenho uma relação conflituosa com Belém do Pará. Por um lado, é onde nasci, e me criei. A maior parte da minha família está lá, com destaque, é claro, para meus pais, ainda vivendo na casa que nos mudamos quando eu ainda contava com cinco anos de idade, e meu irmão mais novo praticamente tinha acabado de nascer.
Tudo isso deveria causar um efeito de nostalgia em mim, e realmente assim acontece; apesar disso, não consigo deixar de me sentir um pouco mal quando vou para lá, porque quando passamos muito tempo em um lugar determinado, é inevitável ver ali seus triunfos e seus fracassos. Como bom católico relapso que sou, a maior parte do que vejo ali são minhas falhas, andando pelas ruas como fantasmas a demandar atenção para si, ou talvez redenção.
O leitor pode imaginar, portanto, que a maioria das minhas viagens são temperadas por essa tristeza, e é verdade. Contudo, dessa vez, as coisas foram bem diferente; talvez porque era um momento especial (meu primeiro livro solo, a primeira vez que veria meus pais depois dessa pandemia tão cruel, a primeira ve que veria minha sobrinha Maria Estela...), talvez porque os livros que tenho lido tem deixado minha mente mais aberta (James Lee Burke é um poeta da literatura policial), ou talvez simplesmente seja meu terapeuta Dr Pedro conseguindo me fazer alcançar um avanço mental maior que antes: o fato é que dessa vez, a sensação foi muito diversa de vezes anteriores.
Como posso explicar? É difícil. Existem sentimentos que nem o melhor dos escritores conseguiria pôr no papel, e eu estou longe de ser um destes. O que posso dizer é que, enquanto andava pelas ruas da cidade, acompanhado de meus pais buscando uma calça para mim (este, um tema para a próxima crônica), olhei para o céus, senti o calor, e não pude deixar de sentir uma ternura imensa pela cidade, como quando sentimos quando se vê um animal ferido andando pela calçada, machucado mas ainda belo em seu porte e aparência.
O sentimento se espalhou durante toda a viagem, e cada pessoa que eu vi, e interagi, só me fazia sentir ainda mais este carinho imenso, esta ternura profunda. Então percebi porque me sentia mal indo para Belém: a cidade não falhou comigo, mas eu sim, que pus nela a minha imagem de pecador, de culpado. Não era a cidade que era feia, e sim a minha visão de mim mesmo, que assim era.
E quando consegui ver a cidade com outros olhos, consegui me ver com esse mesmo olhar novo; e finalmente o véu do julgamento caiu de meus olhos.
Desta forma, no dia 04 de dezembro, lancei muito mais que só um livro: também lancei uma nova imagem de mim mesmo.
E você leitor, quando foi seu último lançamento?
https://tesourosempoeirados.blogspot.com/2021/12/cronicas-do-novo-mundo-um-lancamento.html
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2021.12.09 01:26 DelightfulDestiny I’ve been shooting basketballs for three years now and I just can’t find a form

I’ve watched all the videos and shit that say to use only one hand to aim and the other for support, but I don’t know how to be accurate like that.
When I put my right hand and arm up to shoot, my hand naturally faces a bit to the left so I can’t really aim at where I want the ball to go. This results in me using the other arm which ruins the consistency
What can I do?
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2021.12.09 01:26 Zemroda Lavinia, Azorius Renegade or Hushbringer vs. Elementals/Omnath?

So, I’ve been looking at other Spirits list and noticed that [[Lavinia, Azorius Renegade]] was being used in the sideboard. Other than the first ability hitting Tron, it’s main effect is shutting down free spells, which is somewhat helpful in certain matches, but is almost certainly being included to slow down the elementals or 4-color Omnath decks. The problem word here is “slow.” I haven’t gotten to try it out against elementals, but it seems all it would do is keep the opponent from playing their elementals with evoke until the can hard cast them, which is extremely easy for them to do as if you play Lavinia on turn two, they can easily either play [[Risen Reef]] or [[Flamekin Harbringer]] and simply start producing obscene amounts of value, you can take this time to remove something with [[Skyclave Apparation]] or [[Path to Exile]], or try to stop something with [[Spell Queller]], but they simply seem to keep producing so much value that it always out performs me, making slowing them down feel pointless. Once again, I haven’f gotten to try it, but I’m feeling from just playing against elementals that Lavinia won’t be enough.
Meanwhile, my friend, who has been playing Burn, introduced me to [[Hushbringer]]. Yes, it completely shuts down all of my enter the battlefield effects, but having played it against elementals, they simply can’t do anything as long as Hushbringer is on the board. Evoking does nothing as solitude and fury rely on the etb, Omnath can’t produce value, nor can Risen Reef or Flamekin Harbinger, they can still flash out Endurance to block, but it effectively shuts them out of doing anything.
I have managed to actually play Hushbringer against elementals, and my opponent floundered the first time I did it and simply couldn’t do anything, and thanks to spirits having other things than primarily etbs, I was able to win with lords, etc. Lately, they’ve figured out the can consistently put [[Engineered Explosives]] on two to remove the Hushbringer, but that could also do that to Lavinia.
My dilemma is whether or not the two-edged sword of using Hushbringer is better than Lavinia, as Hushbringer seems to completely shut them down while only hurting me somewhat, however, I’m wondering if there is some hidden reasoning for using Lavinia, other then her being good in a wider range of matchups, where as Hushbringer is specifically a counter to Elementals/Omnath.
Thoughts?
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2021.12.09 01:26 SwanPsychologist Whats the worst shift you've ever worked and what happened?

There are many worst shifts i have worked, but by far the worst worst shift is when i was pregnant and pushing a 12 hour shift with one other person (no show, couldn't find someone to come in) and our restaurant was quite large. I was a manager myself and the other managers refused to come in to help.
I came home and threw my guts up that night after turning on the oven for the first time in our new apartment and the new oven smell sent me over the side. Coming home from being overworked and pregnant was no fun.
Second worst shift was being swamped with only a person who could run the register and someone who could only deliver food and knew nothing else. There was a line out the door, and several busses waiting to come in. This restaurant, again could hold a lot of people. I was the only person who knew how to make the food. No one came in to help me despite me being pregnant. I was noticeably pregnant.
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